LISTEN CAREFULLY WITHOUT INTERRUPTING

Look with your eyes... here with your ears, and fix your mind on everything I show you. 

Ezekiel 40:4 NKJV 

If you train yourself to listen carefully to what someone is saying, they will generally tell you who and what they are before you get into a relationship with them. Prevention is better than cure! But more times than not when someone begins to warn us of their weakness and what to expect, we jump in with our motivational, 'Oh no, that can be true taughts, 'to move forward with us. WE NEED TO LEARN THE PRICELESS ART OF LISTENING WITHOUT INTERRUPTING. If you do you will save yourself years of tears, secret disappointments, and negative experience. Rather than using your optimism, and persuasive style to coerce somebody into accepting your goals and objectives, you need to know when a person can't become something just because you want them to or believe they can. They can't run on your fuel. Your character and maturity won't make up for their lack of it. Without your awareness of this principle, these high-maintenance relationships can weary you and drain your strength for years. In private or professional relationships, if you have to keep motivating to get started, you'll have to keep motivating to maintain. On the other hand if you look, listen, pray and observe, you can decide whether it is worth the effort to engage in the relationship in the first place. And, if you ask God, He will guide you in this: His words says, 'Look with your eyes... hear with your ears, and fix your mind on everything I show you; for you were  brought here... that I might show them to you.