Noah, a man of the soil, proceeded to plant a vineyard. When he drank some of its wine, he became drunk and lay uncovered inside his tent. Ham, the father of Canaan, saw his father's nakedness and told his two brothers outside. But Shem and Japheth took a garment and laid it across their shoulders; then they walked in backward and covered their father's nakedness. Their faces were turned the other way so that they would not see their father's nakedness. Genesis 9:20, 22-23
What is accomplished by sharing details of the challenges you face in your marriage on the Internet? No one’s nakedness is being covered by doing so. Some of you need to take a garment, put it on your shoulders, and walk backwards and cover up your computer to cover your spouse’s nakedness.
Here is an acid test for you: If your Pastor could not read what you wrote from the pulpit on a Sunday morning, you should not be posting it or allowing it to be posted on the Internet. Your church has a few hundred or a few thousand people hearing your personal details, but the Internet has several million.
If you are seriously seeking secrets to marriage restoration, share the details of your relationship with God alone. STOP sharing everything you know with the world.